How’s your relationship working for you?

Does is sometimes feel like life isn’t working for you the way you had always imagined?

Sheila, a woman I’ve been working with for several months discovered that her husband had been cheating on her on and off over the years. Only after she discovered his betrayal did she understand why she had felt alienated and alone for so long.

She continues to sort out whether or not to divorce her husband of twenty-two years. They have three children together. John, has begged for forgiveness, terminated his extramarital relationships and pledged his loyalty to Sheila. He also agreed to go to therapy.

Sheila continues to sort out next steps. But, one thing is clear from our work together. Sheila will no longer play the role of doormat or victim. She has chosen to fortify her relationships with her women friends, to build her support team and to take über care of herself.

Her mindset has gone from self-loathing and self-pity to feeling empowered about whatever next steps she decides to take.

It is NOT too much to expect to have fun, love and a feeling of purpose in life. In fact, that why you are here: To live these precious years FULL OUT. To enjoy the ride and make a difference in the lives of others.

It begins by being able to master your thoughts, beliefs and emotional world.

The good news about mastering your inner world is that you can LEARN how to do this. Yes, this is a teachable skill.

It is also possible to get clear about your vision and create a plan for your life so that you can actualize those dreams.

Every day you can take steps toward your vision until it comes together and IS your reality.

What do you need to do to make sure you’re on the path that best supports the creation of your life’s vision?

As always I’d love to hear your thought and comments.


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