Do you struggle with intimacy?

Jane grew up in a family in which her parents fought constantly. Father was successful, narcissistic and dominating and mother was kind, compassionate but mostly played the role of ‘doormat.’ … Read more

Life after Betrayal

What keeps you from getting the love and intimacy you want in life?  Dianne, a lovely, soft spoken school teacher of twenty five years, came to see me when she … Read more

Are you crying for a dream?

Do you sometimes find yourself trying to figure out your life’s purpose? According to the Lakota Sioux language the word for searching for one’s vision translates to “Crying for a … Read more

So…how’s your relationship?

Sophie’s two children recently launched and were establishing themselves in another state. The children were doing well although at times she ached to see them more. Sophie immersed herself in … Read more

Are you kind to your partner?

What do your most intimate relationships feel like? A couple came in to see me recently, clearly feeling likely they were headed for divorce. I observed the way they spoke … Read more